
He took mummy and I on a walk. They often go on this walk and mummy tells me that she allows him to lead the way, as always. I think that she enjoys the fact that in this one area he still takes the lead and knows where they are going. I must admit at one point I wasn't too sure and did wonder whether I'd be able to use my phone to help us find our way home through fields, but it wasn't needed. He knew exactly where we were going. For those moments you could forget that for the majority of his life he now needed to be led by mummy. As we meandered along, I picked wild flowers from the side of the farmer's fields. Simple pleasures.
They provided a glorious centrepiece when we sat outside for dinner later.
Mother Teresa once said " We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature - trees, flowers, grass - grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence......We need silence to be able to touch souls." Today was one of those days.
When the time comes for me to leave, I know I hold my hugs longer and tighter and I know they do the same to me.

Thanks for sharing this Alyson. I have such fond memories of your dad - the wonderful man he was and still is - but in a different way. I'm glad you're able to enjoy these times with him and your mum and that he still takes joy in his surroundings. You are all in my prayers and I thank you again for sharing this little bit of Alyson. xx
ReplyDeleteThank you Mo. I appreciate this and you. x
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